In this life, don’t expect much
Just don’t trust anyone including yourself, we are all human
Am at a barber shop having my hair done.Its only locks so don’t worry too much about me.
It’s peaceful, just men around here and you know men, the only talk they’d afford to discuss , football 🏈 and more of it, and cars, politics, dirty ones with an exception of a few, nowadays men gossip, daamn .I love the company, no shitty talk, no ones bothered about anyone here maybe a secret admirer , just them worried about how they’ll look cool. It’s a Friday did I mention so them boys have to stand out.
What am I avoiding here? salon talk. Am lucky, ever since I put locks, I rarely have to go to salon besides my hairdresser is a man and he owns a barbershop. What’s with salons by the way? Sometimes av had to visit when taking someone, or perhaps having my eyebrows shaved or nails and the salon I went, ooh I loathed the talk. In this particular one, they love idle talk, am a keen observer . A client comes in, and by the time she’s left , she’s sadly the talk in the place. You enter and everyone looking at you, trying to correct your sense of fashion, your hair what you wanna do to it,the way am shy, I tell you I almost fell, they were around eight ladies in the room minus the salonists, men I felt awful . When will some of us grow up?Now am avoiding the place though they offer nice very services, but it sucks being there. Idle talk is just too much, gets ony my nerves , the ladies here come from far and wide, some if not many not there for a beauty session but to check on the last talk, yes the last time we were talking about Njambi “not her real name” how her hubby almost beat her to death coz he caught her cheating! So the ladies are back,latest news , what happened how’s Njambi, are they OK with the hubby, and by the way that guy where does he gets all that money, I distrust such men! ? I mean how’s that helping anyone? It’s none of your business, cmon people, mind taking care of yourself first. Anyway I hate salons, I’ll try avoid that place, let me search for a man to do my nails maybe.
Ladies, salons are hubs for hair do and beauty, that trashy talk leave it, it will not help. It’s never healthy.Dear salonists your clients trust you and even them opening up to you about their life its because they trust you, don’t trash their name.
Remember, people who love gossip, once you’re done talking about others, they’re be left talking about you! Think about that.
Trust in the Lord, lean not on your own understanding.
I say trust.
In a world full of too much a thing. No one cares any more about anything! You trust in man they’ll dissapoint all the time. Human nature they say to er! Laugh but not too much coz you have no idea what the next tear will come from. It’s a beautiful world, too much to offer if you want, too many things to celebrate just enjoy but not too much and keep your eyes open, wiide open my friend.
As we mature up, so do we become choosy on friends to keep. Do not fear to shun someone off your lane, keep the only important. It’s a funny world, the only one that you’d trust whole heartedly is God, some scholars say yes even you yourself don’t trust yourself any day you’d trip and fall!
Love many, love 😍 but trust a few!
Festivies all over, people having fun. Have fun, make merry but don’t forget about yourself
Continue reading “rough road…When you finally decide to walk away from your comfort zone and face life in full,face the things you’ve been so warned about by your advisers.You getting scorched as you struggle to grasp all you can.You meet new people some who teach you much,some hurt you deeply and so you become stronger without you knowing.But by the end of the day you’ll be glad you embarked on your so lonely journey!Sometimes all we need is to let go of our inner worries leave our comfort zone so as to make it.Its a very dusty path,very slippery very dark at night and the only available torch is your eyes! Do not dare keep asking for the way among st the passersby or you might lose the path all together,some do not care much about you,so you losing the way is their happiness.Remember,you’ve come this far so never give up”
World cup is finally here. Did you know that this is the first 21st world cup that’s why it’s such a humongous thing , I thought you should know.
The football fanatics at it again. Celebrations again, drinks even free ones if you lucky, nyama choma in large quantities, did I forget the vuvuzelas bought, making money selling them, t-shirts, some people will get real rich ?!
just letting you know that you must get prepared for anything.
Nothing much people though , watch if you watching, follow up, bet and have faith , if not get something else to do, ladies how we will suffer Huuh! You think it be easy watching your boys getting addicted to some TV for a whole month. It’s not easy.
Here’s the thing, let’s not make a big fuss out of a football thing, it has been there all along and it’s here to stay at . Let them watch those who want, give them space,for yourself, get busy somewhere else in the kitchen maybe , bettering yourself rather,visit that relative /friend that you’ve not seen for days
Okay not so sure how couples will get on on this coming season . See you have to get to an agreement with each other as a couple . Don’t hate on her if she loathes football, don’t be a nag if he is so addicted to the match. Respect each other, has he watched the game too long in the house? now I think he should let you have it and go join the boys out there!
Last but not least, don’t disturb his peace with questions on what’s happening, who is scoring where , please my sister make friends with google it will help you alot , I bet you could even go ahead of him big time!!
And for the men, you enjoying the game at the house, stop shouting for crying out loud! you disrupting her peace, she’s finally agreed to knit some sweator there,learn some recipes, do her nails now save her the noise. And then allow her to watch her stations too. Then we shall all be happy.
That’s all, all the best may the best team win!
Who is Muyu_another one of your neighbors who. Lover of life. Simple but a bit complicated! Not given to much talking but to alot of writting, it’s my thing any day.
My life experiences_ experiences, queit alot,
Women, ooh women aren’t we blessed, talk of beauty, ooh how we got it all in one package !! A nice shape like this hmmm!! , sizes, we ought to be grateful. Ooh did I forget our ooh so good voices, sweet thing they say.
But ooh how we have so many problems, problems that we have deep in our very own selves.
Let me serve whatever am cooking here then tell me if i lied in my cookery! Do you know how hard it is to get a real friend in a fellow woman. Haven’t I tried oh so many times and found myself at the edge figuring out what to do next. Talk of women being jealous of small small things like this, only a woman will fight over petty issues, only a woman will graduate with a Masters in gossip ,only a woman will steal her friend’s boyfriend, the issues we have as women, too much for life . Too much it hurts.
Look at our dear men, they got no time for silly silly talk with an exception of a few , gossip, fights, if you ever find a man fighting his fellow man, it has to be a massive issue you go find out., they’ll sit to discuss their women/woman, football how they are addicted to this thing, talk of work, gadgets or better still politics. You’ll find men staying together in some apartments for years, no silly fights, no time for gossip or worse still jealousy. And again it’s so easy to have a guy friend, you’d open up to him about anything and not be afraid that he’ll spread it out. A guy friend, wait I mean a friend no strings attached incase someone misunderstood me!! A guy will be there for you supporting you, will celebrate with you in your success no ill feeling anywhere!! What of our dear sisters, woo. It hurts doesn’t it seeing your friend
Let’s see, you have this good female friend of yours probably at work or school. You decide to get a house and want your dear friend to live with you. Besides it is much better, you cutting costs, two are better than one they said!! You and her used to be best buddies until when you move in together, hell breaks loose and fights start erupting. Eventually you part ways forever, with wounds too deep to be healed!! Let me break it down for you, please get us some hot cup of coffee as I narrate this!!
You start seeing the other side of her and it shocks you to pieces.
Definitely you’ve told her alot, you know each other besides she’s your best friend or girlfriend in the modern world .
You both dating some men out there, unfortunately her boyfriend and her have issues and they call their relationship quits, you on the other hand are getting along with your man, he loves you to bits and shows you off everywhere . So now what happens, she starts hating on you, she feels sad that you dating and she’s not dating any longer . She starts devicing ways to break you up with your man so you can all be equal. starts making up stories that your guy is playing you. In the worst scenario, she starts trying seducing your man ,she wants to get your man’s attention, not coz she wants him for keeps but coz she wants you too to end your lovely thing.
You were not a very fashionable girl and so your bestie showed you. Took you shopping to get nice fashionable stuff.Nice dresses or jeans, some makeup here or there. Now that you are a quick learner you grabbed it all. You dressing yourself and looking all beautiful! Now your oh good bestie is hating since you looking pretty, she imagines you’ll be better than her what a cheap thought . And so what if you do! Everybody is beautiful, whether you dress up same still you pretty in a different way.
She’s even claiming that you got yourself a spouse who is dressing you up nicely or worse still you in some cults. Aaaa women aren’t we amazing, the things we do to keep up.
You doing well at work, school in your relationship and your dear bestie can’t handle it. She starts getting ways to mess you up and even giving you sick ideas and because you sooo trust her you listen and mess up. Silly fights, your bestie claiming that you want to steal her man,.
Exactly what do we want ladies.
If you as a female are considering to get friends with a fellow female, be careful, some of them are wicked really wicked. Some women can even kill just coz of jealousy.
Live your life do the best you can and understand that are more beautiful ladies out there, no competition.
We need to change. Sorry if I hurt someone but go find out, the truth does hurt. Thank you.
Who Muyu is_ simple, lover of life. Just your another one of your neighbors.
Not given to much talking, but to much writting..